3 Reasons To Wait For Marriage

3 reasons to wait for marriageYou might have heard at church or youth group about waiting until marriage to have sex. But in the halls of your school, the shows you watch on TV, and stuff you talk about with your friends, you hear lots of talk about sex. You hear how good it is, or how much fun it is. So when it comes down to it, why should you be waiting until marriage to have sex?

Here are three reasons to wait to have sex until you’re married.

  1. You’re worth the wait.
    You have got to believe this. You are incredible. You have limitless worth to God. He paid a huge price to get to know you. That fact alone should make you see how valuable you are to God. God sees you as important and valuable. You’ve then got to believe that about yourself too. You’ve got to take to heart your value to God and believe that you’re worth the wait. You might have a girlfriend or boyfriend who tells you differently. They might pressure you to have sex with them. However, stand firm in your belief that you have value to God.
    The right person will see that value too and believe that you’re worth the wait. When you meet the right person, they will push you to be closer to God. They will see your value and want to wait to have sex. If the person you’re dating is pressuring you, run away. Realize that you’re worth the wait.
    But God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.  – Romans 5:8
  2. The sex is better.
    You might have seen the movies or read books about how awesome a one night stand is. Don’t fall for this lie. There is nothing fulfilling about casual sex. Sex is designed to be something that brings you together with someone. If you want to have great fulfilling sex, then don’t look for it in one night stands or other relationships. The best sex is found in marriage. God designed us for intimacy and relationship and His plan was for that in marriage.
    If you want to have great sex, wait until you’re married. Its in marriage that you can really experience the joy God intended when He created sex.
  3. Its easier on your heart.
    Many people do survive a past relationship failure that involved sex and they still were okay. But if you were to ask them, they would tell you they have regrets from that relationship. That’s because sex is like glue. It bonds you to another person. When the relationship ends, you are still bonded to that person. And just like if you glued two pieces of paper together, and then later tried to separate them, there would be lots of ripping and tearing involved. In the same way, if you bond yourself to someone with sex and you’re not married when that relationship ends, there will be tearing of your heart. Your heart is too important to let this happen. Choose to not let yourself get hurt time and time again by saving yourself for marriage.

Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body.
 – 1 Cor 6:18 (NIV)


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  • Dennes DENNIS
    March 25, 2021 at 9:03 pm

    Thank you so much for this. I’m about to turn 18yrs in two months still a virgin but I’m going through the same things u said about friends. I can’t find anybody who’s trying to wait like the way I am so it’s like I’m the talker for the day. But I have God who’s making me stronger so I’m patiently waiting on him.

    • studentdevos
      March 26, 2021 at 10:41 am

      Dennis, good for you! Stay strong. I was 23 when I got married and I remained a virgin until then and have no regrets. God’s best for you is this, so stay strong. I’m praying for you!