Have you ever had someone that you really liked as more than a friend and you would have done anything to get that person to like you back? You would have changed what you wore, or the music you listened to. You would have dropped all your other friends in hopes that this person would like you.
If you haven’t ever felt this way, its pretty safe to assume that at some point in your life you will feel this way about someone. So with that in mind, here are a few ways that you can become more attractive to the opposite sex.
- Be yourself. This one can be really tough if there is a person that you really like. You can want to change how you dress or how you talk hoping that the other person will notice you or like you. This is never a good solution. If you happen to get the person’s attention, you’ve got yourself into a mess. You’ve got to keep acting like someone else for them to stay interested. You can’t hide the real you forever. The best bet in finding a happy, lasting relationship is to be yourself.
- Don’t give too much sexually. If you are a person that gives to much sexually, you’ll end up getting used. Perhaps you’ll get the attention of the person you like, but is that the kind of attention you really want? In the end giving too much sexually will wind up with you getting hurt. There’s a reason the Bible talks about sexual purity. Its to keep you from getting hurt really bad.
“Guard your heart above all else, for it is the source of life.” – Proverbs 4:23 (HCSB)
- Hold out for the right types of people. Many times its easy to think that having someone to date is better than no one. This is just not true. Its better to wait for the right types of people to come into your life. People that love God like you do. People that have similar values and feel the same way about things as you do. Don’t date just to date. Wait to date the right types of people. It doesn’t do you any good to fall in love with someone who isn’t right for you. Guard your heart and don’t just date anyone.
- Pursue your interests. When you’re not in a relationship, don’t spend all your free time moping around and wishing you had someone to date. Instead, spend the time pursuing things that you’re interested in. If you’ve always wanted to play guitar, start taking lessons. If you love to bake, find out how to become the best baker you can. Spend time developing your interests and developing yourself. You’ll be happier as you do, and more than likely, you’ll end up meeting someone who has interests just like you.
These are just a few tips to help you become more attractive to the opposite sex. You should never become obsessed though with pursuing someone of the opposite sex. Dating someone can be fun, but it will never fulfill you. The only person that can fill you and make you truly happy is Jesus. So always go to Him for help and wisdom in dating.
callieJanuary 4, 2015 at 11:14 pm
I think this is wonderful, never feel that you have to change yourself to be attractive to the other person.. God made you wonderfully, and the way he wanted you, your fearfully and wonderfully made. God will send you a spouse that fits you, give it time, and have faith.